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xLightsOutx March 20th, 2015, 5:08 pm

thanks so much for the +faves and comments. i'm going through a pretty hard time right now, so your kindness and support really means a lot to me at the moment. thanks again.

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Mohimi March 21st, 2015, 10:02 am

Not all relationships have to involve sexual activity. No matter who you are, you can't assume you definitely and absolutely know the best decisions for a person who isn't you. People like Erika here should learn to be more respectful and considerate.

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xLightsOutx March 21st, 2015, 5:15 pm

@Mohimi: agreed 100%

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buttertoest (Guest) July 1st, 2015, 3:53 pm

This part made my heart beat hard. I am on the asexuality scale. I have lost good, close, friends because of my sexuality. I rarely experience sexual attraction. So rarely. I don't understand or relate to my girl friends very often, when it comes to sexual attraction. And, when a friend finds out I am not interested in a sexual relationship, they cut it off. It hurts. A lot. I felt worthless and broken.

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xLightsOutx July 2nd, 2015, 6:26 pm

@buttertoest: omg ;__; your comment broke my heart. i soo relate, and it's seriously the worst. i hate that not having an interest in sex honestly just flat-out means that some people will refuse to be friends with me. it's like this strange ultimatum -- you either have to be willing to be in a sexual relationship with someone or you can't be around that person at all.
but when i lose a friend like that, i have to remind myself that they really aren't worth my time. if they couldn't comply with the type of relationship that i wanted, then we weren't compatible friends to begin with. they wanted something i couldn't provide for them, and vice versa. for a long time i felt really bad about it, i felt broken too, but it's not that we're broken -- we just simply aren't compatible friends with those people. and that's okay! why waste our energy being upset over those people when we could instead be out there finding people who are okay with us just as we are :^)